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Not only that but in the hierarchy of things they subconsciously see 'Western men' as being slotted above them.

At what point should I take down my dating profile?From their society's perspective - if she deviates from this then indirectly she becomes an "outcast".Even if she doesn't the fear of becoming one will hold her back from dating you.I was thinking of giving it a few weeks and if it doesn’t come up, to say something along the lines of “Since we’re exclusive now does that mean I should take my profile down?” versus “I’ve noticed you still have your profile up, are you dating other people?So if she's not showing up at the dates it's because her friends and family have reminded her of her "duties" - making dating Korean girls difficult.Notice my contemptuous tone - I've lost Seoul girlfriends simply because I wasn't "local" enough and yes…it has made me somewhat bitter (unfortunately.) But I'm getting better. If Korea's culture and society didn't make it tough enough - Local guys (in general) don't want it to happen either. Note that the prettier she is - the more guys will shame her.If he doesn’t take his down, would that mean that he is trying to keep his options open?I know in your e Book “Why He Disappeared” you talk about mirroring his actions–ifhe calls, answer; if he sets up a date, say yes—so if he keeps his profile up, I should keep mine up too?” Or will bringing it up at all make me seem needy and jealous? It’s like making a New Years resolution to do cardio, but refusing to ever set foot in the gym. Maybe this guy needs a dictionary to clarify the term “exclusive,” but, by pretty much any standard, “exclusive” doesn’t mean logging onto Match to peruse other women. You want to know how the concept of “mirroring” (seen in “Why He Disappeared”) plays into online dating. If he emails you immediately, you email him back immediately. If he asks for your phone number, give it to him with a time to call.Which is why I’m very comfortable redefining your relationship, Vanessa as “non-exclusive.” You’re just seeing a guy who’s making grand proclamations that you want to hear. If he follows up for a second date and you’re interested, accept.

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